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ISOLATION- As Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered or Questioning (LGBTQ) youth begin to experience same-sex attractions, they often feel very different form their peers and very alone. They may go to great lengths to deny their feeling sot themselves and to hide them from others. Many times they do not personally know any openly LGBTQ people and they do not know anyone with whom they feel safe talking about their feelings.  

LOW SELF-ESTEEM-
LGBTQ youth tend to internalize some of the negative myths and stereotypes about LGBT people that are prevalent in our society. Their shame about their feelings can lead to very negative self-image.  

DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY-
LGBTQ youth may experience significant emotional distress due to their sense of isolation and low self-esteem, along with the lack of resources available to help them cope wit the issues they are facing. 

SUICIDE- Unfortunately, some LGBTQ youth view suicide as their only option. 30% of all teen suicides are LGBTQ related. Their shame can lead to a very negative self-image.  

SUBSTANCE ABUSE-
LGBTQ youth are especially vulnerable to turning to alcohol and/or other drugs as a way of trying to cope or escape  

VIOLENCE-
Youth who are LGBTQ or those who are perceived as LGBTQ are often targets of verbal harassment, physical assaults, or sexual assaults. Most of the violence reported comes from family members or peers, but it can also come from others.  

FAMILY PROBLEMS-
In addition to domestic violence, LGBTQ youth often face rejection or loss of support from their families. A significant number are kicked out of their homes or run away. Nationwide, approximately 25 percent of all homeless youth are LGBTQ.  

SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES AND HIV/AIDS-
LGBTQ youth are especially at risk for a number of reasons, including: 1) the lack of specific sex education about non-heterosexual activity; 2) denial and secrecy about one’s sexual orientation; and 3) self-destructive behaviors related to internalized homophobia.